We know that fear of failure, lack of confidence or information makes decision making difficult.
But what is the real driving force behind complicated decisions?
Difficult decisions are accompanied by emotions.
Emotions motivate us to take an action.
Without feelings and emotions, there is no action.
When we have a wish or a desire, we want to satisfy it.
If we face challenges on the way to satisfaction of that wish, we face frustration.
– If there is no desire, there is no problem.
– If a desire can be satisfied, there is no problem.
– If a desire can be easily given up, there is no problem.
We have a difficult decision when we have opposing forces within us that cannot be easily resolved.
It cannot be resolved with logical tools only.
There is an inner conflict between our logic and our emotions.
Sifting through our emotions will bring clarity of mind, which will illuminate optimal choices.